Does lifestyle submission pique your interest?
Have you long fantasized about being an owned, collared slave?
Lifestyle submission is an earned place. It is gained by proving yourself as a capable, competent submissive through service & sacrifice. There is a common, wishful-thinking misconception that lifestyle subs do not pay Dominatrices or have any sort of financial sacrifice on their part. This is wrong. If you want to serve Me as My dedicated slave, you should be prepared to go above & beyond not only with the time you dedicate to Me, but also how much you are willing to tangibly sacrifice for Me.
Things lifestyle subs do in addition to paying for sessions at the dungeon:
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Household/gardening chores
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Dungeon build & upgrade projects
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Cat boxes
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Pay My dungeon rent
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Pay My dungeon utilities
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Pay My house rent
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Pay My other bills
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Pay for My dates
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Gift Me investment money
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Fill My gas tank
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Buy My groceries
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Treat Me to meals
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Help Me meal prep
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Pay for My house cleaner/massage therapist
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Reimburse My gym & pilates studio memberships
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Pay for My shopping & travel
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Pay for My kink event passes
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Reimburse My purchases of all kinds
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Assist Me with My daily life such as running errands, cooking, etc
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Assist Me with filming, editing, uploading, advertising, etc
This is by no means an exhaustive list.
True submission involves tangible power exchange.
In a capitalist society, the main form of power is fiscal. This is tributing via cash & gifts. But there are other forms of power exchange as well, such as temporal & energetic ((time & energy)). I expect My local submissives to sacrifice their fiscal, temporal & energetic power to Me, & distance subs may only tangibly serve fiscally.
In exchange they get to spend time with Me outside of the dungeon as well as in it, film with Me provided they are comfortable doing so, join Me for fetish events & fetish convention travel, etc.
Lifestyle subs are subs who truly want to serve Me. Who want to prove their love & devotion to Me & My life by sacrificing what they can, within reason, to making My life truly more ethereal. Who want to know what it feels like to partake in a true D/s relationship, & to join My BDSM family.
This is not a position for those who are weak-willed, wishy-washy, non-committal, self-important, selfish, needy, unrealistic or immature. This is NOT a position for those who are using the position to "get discounted sessions" or gain unlimited access to Me via messaging or in person without tributing for My time. This is a position for subs who are selfless & willing to give up control, & sacrifice much more.
This doesn't have to break your bank. I just expect you to do what you can for Me without risking your own financial security - out of the desire to serve Me & ensure My wants & needs are met, not the desire have your own selfish, horny needs met.
I ask you book Me for *at least* 2-3 sessions ((or vanilla time blocks if you are a service submissive only, & not interested in dungeon play)) to begin so we may get to know one another before I will even consider you for a lifestyle position. We need to mesh well in both play & personality/interests. You should also make sure you're following both My IG & twitter/bsky so you can keep up with My daily going-ons & start showing your devotion to Me by offering to help with whatever I have going on, or offering to reimburse things I post.
If you have a willingness to go above & beyond for Me, to hold Me in the highest regard as your one Goddess, to open yourself up to Me fully, to place all your trust in Me, & to work together for an amazing life of Dominance, submission & service, you are the type of submissive I adore most, the type I love dearly, the type that become very precious to Me.
I can't wait to make you Mine.
Dedicated D/s //TPE application Info-
If & only if you have pleased Me by showing you are committed to serving Me & not your own selfish interests, I will offer you the opportunity to submit a Dedicated D/s // TPE Application. You should have already seen Me in person for 2-3 sessions ((or vanilla time blocks if you are a service submissive only who is not interested in dungeon play)) before even bringing up the potential of this occurring, & ideally I will offer it to you before you ask Me about it, unless you are solely a service submissive.
This is a detailed application for those who are hoping for long term, regular service to Me, &//or those who want to build a D/s or TPE relationship. Application is NOT guaranteed acceptance, you may need to clarify certain things, or based on your answers I may choose to not accept you as My slave at the time. This is rare, but possible. After acceptance, we will negotiate My expectations & your role based on your answers & ability to serve. Serious submissives will prove their worth with their wallets, & will prove their appreciation for My Goddess time by compensating Me handsomely for it. The bigger the tributes, the more you shower Me with gifts, the more real sacrifices you make for Me, the more of My precious time I will be willing to share with you. I will expect service from local submissives as well. Again, any payment method listed at payMissBat.com works for this.